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It’s A Woman Thing

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I was reading this book called FeMALE TRAITS by Lurea McFadden. Let me start off first by saying that I love the book. It’s dope in my opinion. It will make you cherish your significant other a whole lot more if you hadn’t already. I say all of that to introduce why I’m writing this here article.

In the book the man best friend is a Latin woman. On the other hand, his wife is a black woman. Now, none of that is an issue. All of that is completely fine. While I’m reading the book, it’s hinted that the Latin woman has an “attitude problem”. However, it was presented in the book as “fiery”. This here is where I drive it home. How come when a black woman has an “attitude problem” she’s considered an “angry black woman”. If she’s not the angry black woman then she’s ratchet, bitter, sad, lonely, etc.

How come the Latin woman could be presented as fiery but the black was has to be presented as angry? Women catch attitudes over the same things. Our men aren’t listening to us, they forgot to take the trash out again, they don’t give us breaks on cooking, We can’t remember the last time they did the dishes, etc. Shit like that. Hell yeah ANY woman has a right to have an attitude over that. We are their women, not their maids. Not their damn sex toys. Hell yeah we can have an attitude and wild out. That’s ANY woman. White, Black, Spanish, Asian, and so on. If a woman want to stand up for herself that’s completely okay. I don’t think any one of us women of any race should be labeled an angry woman for standing up for ourselves.

We are women. We are all fierce. We are all strong and courageous. Regardless of what anybody tries to label us. We birth babies. Complete our homes. Encourage our men. Nurture our children. And all while doing that we still try to make some kind of time for ourselves. Our men should understand that and lift us up as we do them. It’s not an “angry black woman” thing or a “fiery Latina” thing. It’s A Woman Thing.

 

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Written by caressa247

June 27, 2017 at 8:26 pm

Men (LOL)

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Men. Laugh out loud. You know why I’m lol’ing. I’ll tell you why. Because these days men are fucking jokes. They are comical. They are entertainers. Clowns, to be exact. It has to be some kind of sick joke for you to be a man and think it’s okay to watch your woman hurt.

You look at her with tears in her eyes. And ask her why is she crying. As if you don’t know you are the cause. You’ll hurt your woman. Offend your woman. Then when she gives you the silent treatment, you treat her as if she’s wrong. Like you didn’t hurt her.

You’ll lay right next to your woman in bed. Fall asleep heavenly, and not even think twice about why she’s laying next to you crying. You ignore the snobs. Ignore the sniffles. Just laying there. Loudly snoring, enjoying your sleep. You don’t care that her pain doesn’t allow her to sleep. All you know, is that you’re tired. And you’re going to sleep

That’s why men are jokes. You simply make me lol. Not because you are funny. But because you yourself is a funny-styled person. You don’t know how delicate your woman is. ¬†You don’t know how easily she can break. How easily she can hurt. All you know is that as long as she’s not hurting you, you’re happy. Even though you’re hurting her, that doesn’t matter. Because you’re happy.

She cooks for you daily. Keeps your home clean, stabled, and functioning to both of your liking. Work and still have time to be a good woman to you. Do you appreciate it? No. Do you remind her that she’s beautiful? No. Do you make her feel special? No. Do you make her happy? No. When was the last time you told her you loved her randomly? Can’t remember. When was the last time you took her out on a date? You don’t know. When was the last time you cooked dinner for her or cleaned up the house without her having to ask you? Can’t even recollect, can you?

That’s why men are jokes. That is why you make me lol. Because we’re superwoman for them. And they can’t even be a simple lover to us. They forget that we are the prize. They forget that we are something special. We in this new day and age where men want us to fight for them. Provide for them. That’s cool and all, but what about us? We’re doing so much for you guys to the point where you feel like we don’t deserve having anything done for us anymore. I miss the days where men were gentlemen and wanted to make their women happy. Guess I missed out. It would’ve been nice to have a man genuinely care about me and my happiness.

Written by caressa247

May 8, 2017 at 5:03 am

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