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Strange Faces While Looking For Love In All The Wrong Places

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We all think we know someone. We think we know our family, friends, spouses, etc. but we don’t. Not the full being of them anyway. We only know what they want us to know. How many times have you kept a secret from someone? Is there secrets that you have and plan on taking to the grave with you right now? Sure there’s secrets. We all have them.

Humans do not digest embarrassment well. That’s why we vault our secrets. Would you tell your husband about the time you pissed your pants because you were too scared to be in the house alone at the age fifteen? I think that is a small secret you would hold onto. That was just a small example. If you killed two of your ex wives, would you tell that to your soon-to-be third wife? Now, that’s a big example. Not to mention I highly doubt anyone would disclose that information.

The point I’m making here is how well do we know anyone. Can true love even exist if we never met each other true self?

 

 

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October 15, 2017 at 4:12 am

Celebrities Over Reality?

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I’ve noticed a couple of things that have been spewing out of a few men mouths lately. Other than, Can you make me something to eat? and Babe, lets get this quickie in. There’s not too much men speak up on. Oh, but in this case. They can’t hold back.

Ladies, how many times have you heard your man saying how fat Nicki Minaj ass is ( in an admirable way)? Or, how bad Kim Kardashian is? I can name more than five celebrity women right now who went under the knife to look how they look right now. Meanwhile men could have a beautiful curvy natural woman at home but he’s too busy portraying superficial beauty onto her. Why can’t men gas their women up like they do these women on the TV? Like damn, us reality women must be chopped liver compared to these women that have gotten nipped, tucked, and sucked.

I’m not shaming any woman who wants to get surgery or who currently has surgery. I’m not even blasting or judging the celebrity women. I’m just saying, it doesn’t make sense for women in reality beauty to go unnoticed when it took a surgeon for some of the women on TV to look how they look.  It would be nice if men told they women how beautiful they were and how banging they body look verses telling them all that about the women on TV. THAT IS ALL!

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October 10, 2017 at 10:06 pm

It’s A Woman Thing

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I was reading this book called FeMALE TRAITS by Lurea McFadden. Let me start off first by saying that I love the book. It’s dope in my opinion. It will make you cherish your significant other a whole lot more if you hadn’t already. I say all of that to introduce why I’m writing this here article.

In the book the man best friend is a Latin woman. On the other hand, his wife is a black woman. Now, none of that is an issue. All of that is completely fine. While I’m reading the book, it’s hinted that the Latin woman has an “attitude problem”. However, it was presented in the book as “fiery”. This here is where I drive it home. How come when a black woman has an “attitude problem” she’s considered an “angry black woman”. If she’s not the angry black woman then she’s ratchet, bitter, sad, lonely, etc.

How come the Latin woman could be presented as fiery but the black was has to be presented as angry? Women catch attitudes over the same things. Our men aren’t listening to us, they forgot to take the trash out again, they don’t give us breaks on cooking, We can’t remember the last time they did the dishes, etc. Shit like that. Hell yeah ANY woman has a right to have an attitude over that. We are their women, not their maids. Not their damn sex toys. Hell yeah we can have an attitude and wild out. That’s ANY woman. White, Black, Spanish, Asian, and so on. If a woman want to stand up for herself that’s completely okay. I don’t think any one of us women of any race should be labeled an angry woman for standing up for ourselves.

We are women. We are all fierce. We are all strong and courageous. Regardless of what anybody tries to label us. We birth babies. Complete our homes. Encourage our men. Nurture our children. And all while doing that we still try to make some kind of time for ourselves. Our men should understand that and lift us up as we do them. It’s not an “angry black woman” thing or a “fiery Latina” thing. It’s A Woman Thing.

 

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June 27, 2017 at 8:26 pm

Weird People

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Did you ever notice how weird some people are? You can have someone that has your back completely. They encourage you to do better and they accept you for who you are. Yet when that same person that is always there for you suddenly need you, you are nowhere to be found. That is the true definition of weird. You don’t know how to comfort your good friend in a time of need but you know how to comfort a person that tears you down repeatedly.

You know how invest your time and energy into a person who doesn’t even give a damn if you are good or not. They’ll come around when it’s convenient for them. And you’ll be right there, like a damn weirdo. But when your good friend needs you, you’re incognito. You’re all of a sudden Ray Mysterio.

That’s why I learned to be happy with myself, by myself. Some of my most happiest and relaxing moments are by myself. I go to the movies by myself. I get my eyebrows done by myself. I have lunch by myself. I even had drinks by myself before at a couple bars. I enjoy time by myself. It’s less stressful. Plus you don’t have any fake people around showing fake love to you. Just genuine love if you genuinely love yourself.

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May 29, 2017 at 4:02 am

Identity Thief

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When did we become our significant other property? Does marriage make it okay? If a man can dictate what you can and cannot do in a marriage, then I never want to get married. I’m not saying be like loose change in the couch cushion. What I am saying is don’t forget who you were before you got into a relationship or marriage.

You was someone sister. Best friend. Daughter. You cannot forget that. You cannot forget that your favorite thing to do on a Tuesday evening is have a martini after a long day of work and sit back watching Tyler Perry’s, If Loving You Is Wrong.  Or, that you love to just sit back and paint while you listen to Maxwell on the Pandora station after you put the kids to bed.

Men don’t realize that they transform the women we used to be. To be perfectly honest, it’s not a bad thing. Growth is good. Change for the better is good. What’s not good, is forgetting the things that once made you the happiest. You cannot forget the things that made you who you are today.

Love your man. Love your family. Throughout all of that you CANNOT forget to love yourself. You get one life to live. Being a girlfriend or a wife doesn’t have to stop you from living your dream. You can be a photographer, writer, model, artist, traveler, etc. All while still being a mother and a living wife. Don’t forget who you are.

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May 23, 2017 at 11:41 pm

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Men (LOL)

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Men. Laugh out loud. You know why I’m lol’ing. I’ll tell you why. Because these days men are fucking jokes. They are comical. They are entertainers. Clowns, to be exact. It has to be some kind of sick joke for you to be a man and think it’s okay to watch your woman hurt.

You look at her with tears in her eyes. And ask her why is she crying. As if you don’t know you are the cause. You’ll hurt your woman. Offend your woman. Then when she gives you the silent treatment, you treat her as if she’s wrong. Like you didn’t hurt her.

You’ll lay right next to your woman in bed. Fall asleep heavenly, and not even think twice about why she’s laying next to you crying. You ignore the snobs. Ignore the sniffles. Just laying there. Loudly snoring, enjoying your sleep. You don’t care that her pain doesn’t allow her to sleep. All you know, is that you’re tired. And you’re going to sleep

That’s why men are jokes. You simply make me lol. Not because you are funny. But because you yourself is a funny-styled person. You don’t know how delicate your woman is.  You don’t know how easily she can break. How easily she can hurt. All you know is that as long as she’s not hurting you, you’re happy. Even though you’re hurting her, that doesn’t matter. Because you’re happy.

She cooks for you daily. Keeps your home clean, stabled, and functioning to both of your liking. Work and still have time to be a good woman to you. Do you appreciate it? No. Do you remind her that she’s beautiful? No. Do you make her feel special? No. Do you make her happy? No. When was the last time you told her you loved her randomly? Can’t remember. When was the last time you took her out on a date? You don’t know. When was the last time you cooked dinner for her or cleaned up the house without her having to ask you? Can’t even recollect, can you?

That’s why men are jokes. That is why you make me lol. Because we’re superwoman for them. And they can’t even be a simple lover to us. They forget that we are the prize. They forget that we are something special. We in this new day and age where men want us to fight for them. Provide for them. That’s cool and all, but what about us? We’re doing so much for you guys to the point where you feel like we don’t deserve having anything done for us anymore. I miss the days where men were gentlemen and wanted to make their women happy. Guess I missed out. It would’ve been nice to have a man genuinely care about me and my happiness.

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May 8, 2017 at 5:03 am

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The Benefits of Moisturizing

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     We spend most of our time admiring our favorite celebrities. We’re constantly wrecking our brains wondering how can we make our skin more luminous and beautiful. I found the secret to their beautiful skin regimen without using makeup. Do you want to know the secret?

     The key to beautiful flawless skin is to moisturize. Moisturizers does more than make your skin soft and vibrant, it reduces water loss from the epidermis as well. Beware though, not all moisturizers are the same. Some can be very harmful towards your skin. Consult with your doctor before you use any products if you have a skin condition.

     I’ll share some natural ingredient ideas with you in this article. That way you can see it’s easy to find everyday ingredients to make a light and organic moisturizer. Some herbs and essentials are great for moisture. Vitamin E, avocado, glycerin, yogurt, bananas, and olive oil are all also excellent ingredients to use when it comes down to moisturizing.

     You should try a simple yogurt mask. It is phenomenal for revitalizing skin. It improves skin texture, helps middle age acne, gives you a healthy glow, and moisturize your skin. Here’s a little facial treatment that can help.

     Vitamin E boost & yogurt treatment:

  1. Empty contents of 3 Vitamin E capsules into small bowl
  2. Add 2 tsps of plain yogurt
  3. 1/2 tsp of honey
  4. 1/2 tsp of lemon juice
  5. Finally, apply mixture on face using a cottonball.
  6. Leave on for 10 minutes then rinse.

     You can thank me later. Now go try that new yogurt treatment and tell me how great it works 🙂

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September 30, 2013 at 7:21 pm